Parents are noble..yes.. in many ways..but the very first is to accept the decision to give birth to us.. all of us.. they are our parents..that is the fact and no one can change it..Yes..they are noble to make the decision to give birth to us.. because by giving birth to us.. they have to take care of our expenses..yup3.. and it's really a great responsibility to them..But what about the second noble thing they do??
The second noble thing they do is that they accept who their children are after they found out about them..like gays.. have you ever think what their parents thinks of them?? have you ever realise how difficult their parents to accept who they are??
Recently my friend's mum found out that her son is a gay..and what her mum do?? talk to him..and said that she wan to help him.. wan to bring him to councelling.. done up all the restriction list for his son..
1:No overnight at friend's hse
2:Cannot call anyone
3:Must be at home after work or after school
4:No outing
5:Sms must be checked at all times
Do you think this will help him?? or will this ruin him??
Yes..it's difficult for them to accept who they are..but must you really force them?? you are giving them no choice but to listen to you..but do you think they will be happy??
Confiscate their stuff..forbid them to contact friends.. that's what they do..
But what about those who accept who they are?? giving them physical and emotional support..do you think that will be better??
What makes them become like this?? some time it's the environment.. ask yourself parents..is it the environment that changes them or they changes the environment.. some time it's not them who wan to chose..
I feel hurt when friends tell me that their parents know about them..at the same time i'm happy..cause finally they don have to be a secret..
but i still have to say.."wake up your idea ppl"
today went to the library..haven cut my hair yet.. hahas..my mum keep calling me to cut my hair..but i'm still deciding wheather i shuld cut my hair anot.. because i don like to cut hair..starting school soon.. this coming mon.. 15 oct.. hmm..hope everything will change..like the schedule.. i hope they will change the schedule to the earliest shift.. like earliest release is at 11am..latest is at 1pm.. cause i heard from them that our schedule will change every term.. one term early..one term late.. yup3.. and somemore..i went to interview today..hahas.. school reopening soon.. then i went to interview..hm hope that i can still cont to work when studying.. and hope my school schdule can fix into my timing well and perfect..
met shizari just now.. finally i pass him his cardigan liao..hahas.. :) hey dude..hope you enjoy yourself ya..even though of the restriction..i know you can be over it fast.. ;) take care..
day was alright.. haven had my dinner..but soon after i finish doing all my stuff i will be going on to have my dinner.. i think today i will be having my dinner alone..yup3.. cause no one has the time to acc me go have dinner.. anyway..just hope that you guys will be enjoying your day and night today.. ;) take care ya.. another 5 more days to hari raya..hope that all muslim friends has finish cleaning up..and finish baking all the stuff too.. ;) take care..
Oct 8, 2007
Noble parents
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